Written by neuropsychologist Theresa M. Regan, PhD, CAS, this book explains how social connection actually works—and why it can feel so complex.
Drawing from more than 30 years of clinical experience and over 1,000 autism evaluations in adolescents and adults, Dr. Regan translates research into real-life application.
Inside, you will learn how to:
• Recognize the difference between task-focused and relationship-focused communication
• Strengthen conversational skills without sacrificing authenticity
• Navigate compliments, gratitude, and emotional reciprocity
• Approach conflict without falling into “all good” or “all bad” thinking
• Repair misunderstandings and rebuild trust
This book does not promote masking or changing who you are. Instead, it increases clarity—about your own communication style, about the expectations of others, and about how neurological differences influence interaction.
Whether you are an autistic adult seeking insight, a spouse or partner wanting to strengthen connection, a parent supporting growth, or a clinician working with neurodiverse clients, this book provides structured guidance grounded in compassion.
Introduction: Autism Diagnosis in the adult
Want to Earn a Certificate of Completion and 1.0 CEU?
You can access the course materials for free, or choose to take register for a certificate. In order to earn the certificate, the student will read the article and watch all videos. After achieving 80% or more on the exam, Dr. Regan will email your certificate. Please check with your professional organization to ensure the CEU meets their requirements.
Parable of the elephant
Watch this brief but essential video about why autism is misdiagnosed and how to detect incorrect labels. Because wrong diagnosis leads to ineffective interventions, correct diagnosis is paramount.
benefits of Diagnosis
Grab some popcorn and a notepad while you watch this 15-minute video about why diagnosis is important. Dr. Regan covers all the reasons you never considered. She also reviews practical barriers and instances when a diagnosis may not add substantial benefit.
Barriers to Diagnosis
Watch this brief video about practical barriers to an autism diagnosis.
Busting myths
This video aims to bust myths about autism that may interfere with people seeking or receiving a correct diagnosis.
Busting Myths
Watch part two of the myth-busting lesson
How
Dr. Regan offers recommendations for finding a professional to perform a diagnostic assessment.